December 2, 2020
Reflection: I am liberated to be who I truly am.
Today, I'm grateful for: Athleisure!
Challenge: What are you doing that is only meant to please others?
I've always been a jewelry junkie. I blame my mom. We've both always had an appreciation for the special punch that the right accessories can bring to an outfit (or a day for that matter). So I shouldn't be surprised that my go-to pandemic accessory of choice has been funky earrings.
My affinity for athleisure this year has led to a wardrobe that consists almost exclusively of leggings and athletic tops or sweaters. But with the right earrings, I go from comfy/cozy to I'm here to fck shit up. My spicy earrings (as I like to call them) set the tone for my day. They bring me all the vibes I need to kickstart my morning and step into whatever it is that the day holds for me. And (bonus perk), in the event I have a video call for work, they take my look from "Did you shower today?" to "Wow! You look nice!"
Truth be told, if they saw me in person, they'd probably be underwhelmed. BUT my spunky earrings continue to serve me well in more ways than one! I've consistently noodled on this evolution of my wardrobe and morning routine over the last several months. I've gone from rushing through a makeup routine, scouring my closet for a reasonable outfit and adding all the right accessories, to a robust skincare routine, grabbing a pair of leggings, and adding a fun pair of earrings.
I've come to appreciate this transition for so much more than just the convenience of not "getting ready". I mean, why is it that we feel the need to try SO HARD anyway? Clearly, I'm not doing it for myself! (I honestly can't tell you the last time I put on REAL jeans, and I'm not mad about it.) We live in a society that expects us, women in particular, to fit a particular mold that creates comfort, or better yet, desire for those around us. *damn you, patriarchy!* And as moms, we're expected to not only provide our children with all the love, care, attention, nurturing, meals, social interaction, etc....we're supposed to look put-together while we do it!
It's not that I don't enjoy getting dressed up every now and then. But a great realization I've had over the last several months is that without all the noise of these 'routines' and expectations, I feel liberated to actually be who I am.
So I continue to wear my leggings and earrings proudly, and I think I'm a better mother for it. Instead of funneling energy into the routines and expectations, I have more time and energy for what matters most. I invite you to join me on my #AthleisureForLife journey. Who knows what our days will look like a year from now, but what I can tell you is that I will forever have a new outlook on how I approach my routines and how I present myself to the world.
XO
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